Opportunities are attracted to value

There are so many ways to increase your value. And by so doing, you'll be able to being value into any relationship, organization and community you are part of.

1. Gather knowledge

The difference between successful people and non successful people is knowledge. There is always something that a successful person know that others don't. Make sure you're learning, studying and gathering knowledge so that you're knowledgeable when needed.

2. Acquire skills

What can you do? I mean practical skills. Everyone these days can use a computer but not everyone can do complex equations and pivot tables. Acquire not just skills but unique skills. Do all you can to stand out.

3. Hone your people's skills

There is no success without relationships. You can have all the money, skills and energy but if you can't work with people well, you are going to frustrate people. People skills have to do also with your emotional intelligence. That's how you build valuable and successful relationships.

4. Manage your reputation

Believe it or not, reputation can be the deciding factor between being included or excluded from a deal. When you don't keep promises, are dishonest and try to cheat people out of opportunities, soon enough you will have no one wanting to do anything with you. Manage your reputation. What people say in this instance matters.

5. Go and extra mile

Do not only do what's require but exceed expectations. Average is not a place for valuable people. These are problem solvers par excellence. Be like that. Don't settle for good if you can be great. Always seek opportunities to do more. Volunteer if you must.

As you navigate this new week and the upcoming new month, please put these into implementation and see how much value you can add to yourself and those who are around you.

Happy new week

Gift J Mthimkhulu

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